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For most, or even all men, the performance of his buddy in his pants and those two dangling attachments are a matter of pride and self-esteem. For one it’s the size, for another the hardness of the erection or the mastery of controlled ejaculation.

Imagine the number of men that suffer from premature ejaculation or other ejaculation control issues. These men are very interested in anything that could help them improve their sex lives by gaining control over the rebel penis and his ejaculation. Their pride, self-esteem and reputation are slowly eroded every time the penis gets out of hand and spoils the fun of both partners. Of course, these men could go to see doctors in order to find out if their problems can be fixed or not. Some of them do, but many prefer to hide their dysfunction and suffer in silence than to face the fact that they have a problem which must be dealt with sooner or later.

Still, some men could benefit from a simple piece of advice. Ejaculation is controlled at the physical level by a muscle called pubococcygeus, also known as the PC muscle. This is one of the most overlooked muscles in the male body and the average man has little idea it exists. Training the PC muscle and keeping it in shape is out of the question. And yet, this muscle has the power to make or break our sex lives. Ejaculation is only possible if the PC muscle is relaxed, which means that tensing it stops ejaculation dead. No pills, no trips to the doctor. It’s do it yourself heaven.

The pubococcygeus muscle is located in the pelvic area and can easily be found by any man. Go into the bathroom and start urinating then stop in mid-flow. The muscle you tense in order to stop the flow of urine is the PC muscle. There are toilets within easy reach everywhere, which means that men don’t get to exercise this muscle at all. Not that one would wish to exercise his PC muscle by looking around for a toilet, say, for about half an hour. The best way to get this muscle in shape and to bring ejaculation under control is to exercise it every day.

The exercise is simple, albeit a bit tedious. You can exercise in front of the TV, at work or while driving. It’s a good way to fill the wasted time spent driving to or from work. The basic idea is to locate the muscle and start flexing it. Clench the PC muscle, hold it clenched for two seconds and then release it slowly. Keep doing clenching sessions every day and you will soon feel the difference. A well-trained PC muscle will let you to rein in ejaculation and to allow it only when you feel like it.

This is power!

This tip was provided by LoveCentria.com