Sexual benefits of masturbating
Exploring the sensual sensations and how the body reacts to stimulation starts in teen age. During the teen years almost all people are already familiar with most of their body parts and know that the touching fo their private parts is very pleasant. They already know their sex organs (some more and some less).
Even if the parents discourage these activities children know that playing with them makes them feel good (although they don’t understand yet why). It doesn’t really matter much how parents handle this and how many taboos they might invoke, people are naturally curious about everything. The fact that many adults refuse to discuss the issue about it just makes everything more interesting.
Most explorations start with touching and goes on to masturbation. For most children, this is the gateway to sex and the beginning of the path to the great world of sex and pleasure. And it’s a good thing this is comes during the early steps in a person’s life. Although masturbation and lack of knowledge about the physical side of the opposite sex are not the best way to prepare for intercourse, knowing oneself is still better than ignorance.
In the Victorian age, a certain English poet abstained from all manner of sex in order to be a virgin when he finally married at the age of 28. At the end of the wedding night he was extremely disappointed to find what intercourse actually was. He had hoped for something far grander, especially since he wrote love poems. However, his view of passion was completely unrealistic and led to a crushing disappointment.
Masturbation helps people learn what they really like when the clothes fall off and also what they would like other people to do to them. Knowing more about the pleasure they experience makes people more likely to understand the pleasure of others and to want to explore new ways of getting more of it for themselves and for their partners.
Communication of what we want and what we need is one of the most important parts of a successful sex life, since guessing is not a good option. And imagine what an amazing surprise it is to find that your partner is also interested in masturbation and not in the least shy to share this intimate act with you. Mutual masturbation can be a very tender act between two people who really know how to give and take pleasure.
It is worth noting that masturbation is a good option during those times when intercourse is not easy to come by. If you don’t feel bound by moral, religious or other duties, then there’s no reason to avoid getting rid of your sexual tension by masturbating. You’ll certainly feel more relaxed afterwards and the others will profit from your improved mood as well. A satisfied person is a person less likely to quarrel and start conflicts in the office or at home.