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some tips for you on how to be romantic

You don’t have to wait for valentines day or your partners birthday… You can be romantic at any time - this sure will help you build a better and healthier relations ship. I have gathered some very simple tips and tricks on how to be romantic…

  • Make a “Love CD”: compile a CD with all the songs she loves and that mean something to your relation ship (your first slow dance for example)
  • heat up the bathroom, close all windows and make sure the bathroom is dark. Set up as much candles as you can find and fill the bath with lots of bubbles… - this one is always a winner.
  • Surprise your partner with lunch during his / her workday… There is nothing that can beat a midday romantic lunch
  • Write “I LOVE YOU” on the mirror - with lipstick, or anything else you can find
  • Send your partner a SMS message or a mail with only the words “I love you” nothing more… simple but effective
  • Go to the movies , try to get a seat in the last row and start cuddling
  • In the midst of talking about how your days went, the chores that need to be done, etc. interrupt and say “I have something important to tell you. I love you and here’s why.” Then list 5 things (or more) that you really appreciate about your partner. Finish with a kiss and say, “Ok, so you were talking about the water heater.”
  • Write a love letter and mail it… (not email it, but snail mail it)
  • Before going to a party together come up with some secret code words you can use during conversation. You can be telling each other “I can’t wait to get you alone tonight!” without anyone knowing!
  • Get a hotel room in your area, for just one night… spontaneously
  • write an ad declaring your love and publish it in the local newspaper… leave it on the kitchen table with a note telling her on which page to look
  • Write a poem. Then use Google Translator to translate a poem into either French or Italian. Then handwrite it out with the translation on the back side. Or better yet, greet your partner at night and read it to them with passion and then hand them the translation.
  • buy some romantic smelling oil and massage your partner after a long day at work
  • Dedicate a song to him/her on the radio and send him/her an email telling him when to listen.
  • Make an early valentine. Cut out some paper in the shape of a heart. Write something sweet on it in red and put it in her purse or his briefcase.
  • If your partner is going on a business trip secretly hide a love note inside their luggage.
  • Offer to help them with some dreaded chore they must complete and make it into a fun time maybe with some music. (cleaning out the basement, raking the leaves, shoveling after a big snow storm, giving the dog a bath, washing the car, etc.)
  • Do something romantic and spontaneous, like picking a flower and giving it to her right on the spot.
  • Buy some body paint and write your love message on your body.
  • Record yourself reading a romantic love poem for your honey. Then give your partner a CD and tell them to play it in the car on their way to work.
  • Keep a box with mementos of fun things you’ve done together. Later when the box is filled, arrange them on a board and have it framed.
  • Say “I Love you” … simply as that, just say it.
  • Create a small website or a blog as a journal of your love… write every day a thing that makes you love each other
  • Take an interest in your partner’s interests. For a woman it might be watching a football game with your guy. And for men it might be going to see a chick-flick. Do it with a spirit of enthusiasm and love. Have fun.
  • Take a walk on the beach together. Run up ahead and write a message in the sand, and then call your partner to see what you “found.”
  • Buy some underwear with special messages on it. Or buy your own and paint a special picture or message with fabric paints.
  • Blindfold surprise. Blindfold your partner and drive them to the place where you had your first date, and have that date all over again!
  • King for a Day/ Queen for a Day. Declare that you will dedicate a particular day just to your partner to do whatever they want. Maybe start with breakfast in bed.
  • Just give your partner a big wet kiss in public

Good luck!

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